My motherland is crying

My motherland is crying

  3:28:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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My motherland Nepal, where I was born and raised is crying today. It is a birthplace of God, Buddha  and  also a country of the Himalayas where the highest mountain of the world Mt. Everest is located. It is known as one of beautiful country in the world. This country is beautiful not only by nature but also by loving, caring, compassionate and kind hearted people of this nation. But, It has been crying for several years for various reasons. It underwent for Maoist insurgency for almost a decade  and thousands of people lost their lives. Again, it faced massive earthquake and landslides which ended thousands of lives and their loved ones. People are crying and crying but, we can’t do anything for this natural disaster except bearing an arm.  We had to cope with that situation only by  our eternal power, otherwise, we didn’t have any exception.

Photo courtesy http://journalistontherun.com/2015/07/27/7-reasons-to-visit-nepal/

Besides those problems, now this nation is crying for political salvation. It needs  peace, harmony, and sovereignty, but the politicians are fighting only for power not for the people, not for the nation, not for the peace but they want to control the laws in their hand. People had a new dream of political revolution, they were waiting for new Nepal with a new constitution, which would establish their right, freedom, equality and sovereignty. But, the hope went in vain when the major political parties purposed new constitution ignoring the right of indigenous and minority people. That's why it is again under fire.  Again eight security personnel and one innocent baby had to lose their lives in the protest raised by Tharu one of the indigenous people of Nepal.

The government is for the people, for the nation to establish the right of people not for the power. This nation needs peace, harmony, and sovereignty and it needs to get relief from this political destitution.

This country needs relief from this kind of political destitution, Government should be for the people not for leaders. If the major political parties insist on their proposal , the agitation will not end.  They have to learn the politic by the developed country and widening their vision. The flexibility of the major political party could bring the solution otherwise it seems that our country will cry for hundred of years again for the political dilemma.

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Never Stop Dreaming

Never Stop Dreaming

  9:02:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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The way to Fire Island NY a new dream land

People have different kind of dream depending on their  life style, their age, circumstances and many more. People who don’t have food, dream to have enough food to eat,  who don’t have clothes to cover their arms dream to have the new clothes, and if they don't have money dream to earn more money. Therefore, the dream of people varies on the basis of their needs and their intention, level of understanding,their economic condition,  level of educations etc. But, whatever situation we are, we never stop dreaming either big or small.  People might have a dream of job, dream of power, dream of money, dream of happiness, dream of family and so forth. No matter what kind of dream it is, we can’t live without dreaming every day. It is a way of life which directs us to move forward.  

Some can achieve their dream with less  endeavor but many people think that fulfilling the dream is decided by their destiny. The luckiest ones accomplishes  their dreams  easily but most of the other has to struggle a lot to have them in hand. For that reason, we can’t say dreaming is only a way to have our multiple goals. We have to work hard and should take strong determination to accomplish them. There is a saying, ‘No pain, no gain’ , means without hard work and enough dedication, nothing is possible in this world. Someone, who must be very fortunate in this world, whose dream is fulfilled with little effort but it's not easy for all.

Someone, who must be very fortunate in this world, whose dream is fulfilled with little effort but its not easy for all.

Even though many of our dreams destroy on the way, we should keep on dreaming again and again because failure is the other side of success.  We should have hope in our mind which is the only single word carries strongest power to keep us alive. If we lose our hope, nothing is going to be happening. In addition, hope generates  new dream and supports us to move to our destination. The other mentor of dreaming in life is forgiveness. If we forgive ourselves, the better way we will find. But, if we keep on sticking on our failures,  we will stay back forever.  Thus,  people! Never give up hope in your life and never stop dreaming in your life. If one of your dreams is broken, forget that, but start a new dream of your new life, set a new goal, set a new life, of course your dream will be waiting for you to be fulfilled with a fuller light of the moon.

Life is a course of problem, when one is resolved, another arrived right away. We can't be fulfilled until we are alive but dreaming is the way of our living. If we don't have dream, don't have tomorrow and won't expect future that is not the life of people. We have our past, present and future. Past is already gone, lets forget that, present is today lets make it happens because today is more important than tomorrow. If we live in the present, we have to be happy and make our present joyful because we are never sure for tomorrow or future. We have hope for everything is for betterment but still there are lots of uncertainties with tomorrow. If we think we will do tomorrow that is just a procrastinating, which keeps us back rather moving forward.

But we shouldn't  afraid with uncertainties as we are hopeful, we are optimistic with our future. Whatever we are doing today, we have an expectation of the good result in the future. We want to have better life tomorrow, we dream of having all of the sorts of things to be fulfilled tomorrow. Thats way, even it is full of insecurities, lets make dream that without expecting those things and lets hope to be positive and lets hope we will make everything possible by tomorrow. The end

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A beautiful time with Bhisma Chemjong dd producer of "Chesung"

A beautiful time with Bhisma Chemjong dd producer of "Chesung"

  9:34:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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Selfie with Bhisma Chemjong DD and Mukkum

I am very  thankful for meeting with Bhishma Chemjong sister, producer of Chesung Film and one of the inspiring women of our community.  It has been my great opportunity to see her after a long time, we had been apart for almost eight years. Discussing with her about past and present, about personal life and professional life, time spent so fast even I didn’t realize it was already 8.30pm and I had to say her good night. It was really fun to fly around  Nepal relating my past job, study and diving around our Limbu’s world  during our conversation. 

Fleeting in the castle of fantasy gives me an imaginary peace in mind, like I could have achieved salvation. That is what happened  while  talking all about the issues circling the life with her. In fact, we are born not only to be fed and to eat but also for the sake of our community to build some values , norms and  to do something good for people as well for our creator. In addition, our life is not only to live by ourselves but also to make someone to live their lives, we have borne not only to enjoy by ourselves but also to entertain others in this world. All of those are the lessons which  I learned by reading her life indirectly.

  We are born not to be fed  by ourselves but also for the sake of people and our creator. Our life is not only to enjoy by ourselves

but also to entertain to others in this world.

We all are the visitors of this world only for two days and we can’t take anything else when we left this beautiful place. We all know this fact but still don’t leave opening our showcase like we retain ourselves forever. People ! let’s put our effort together for a better world and compile our wisdom to make everyone's life easier until our last breath. Good night!

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The reflection of " Dream"

The reflection of " Dream"

  9:15:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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Today's view of the sky while thinking about my dream!

Many people talk about a dream and I am the one who is most concerned. It must be due to my hereditary nature as I used to hear a lot from my mother. I still remember the interpretation of her dream that she told me when I was very young age , Therefore, the psychological attachment has existed inside with me so, I also define the meaning in the same way.

While discussing with people about a dream are fun but, sometimes it bothersome as well. I talk about what I have and what would be the prediction in future with close one. People who are good listeners pay attention for it but, some feel distracted who never care about what comes in their dream and also don’t know whatever the meaning that could be. That's why it's better to ignore whether it is good or bad. But, I can’t exactly figure out why I am not able to apply myself. Though I tried a lot, my natural noble drives me to explain frequently without caring how they grab it. I am putting a lot of effort to change myself to forget and interpret my dream. But, whenever a beautiful dream comes to me, an excitement arises and wait for the result. The consequences of the bad dream are to be unhappy without reason. I researched about the dream and found that psychologists also interpret the dream relating to human behaviors. I read several articles about the explanation of dreams; some said that dream helps to understand the personal relationship, uncensored views of real feeling and other aspects of life. In my own opinion, it is just a reflection of daily activities and the event that might occur in any indefinite period of time. The benefit of sharing a beautiful dream is delivering pride and triumph whereas worrying with bad dream is wasting your valuable time because ‘present is more important than future’. We never know about tomorrow, so, leave it and keep you in present. Cheers!! Goodnight!!!

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'Motherhood' a beautiful moment of life

'Motherhood' a beautiful moment of life

  4:02:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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Becoming a mother is one of the beautiful moments in life, but it is meant to cope with a lot of challenges as well. None of the things are there in this world, which can replace your happiness that brings to you by being a mother

. When I gave birth to my baby, I felt that I won this world. I felt I am completed only after that. I went to school, college, university and started to work, earned money, involved in different social activities, wrote articles, news, had fun with friends, but I was still incomplete by that time. Therefore, when I came across with this moment and found that, that gap was filled by motherhood. So, we can't compare the happiness that is achieved by money or something physical materials, which can be obtained by motherhood. 

 People think that becoming a mother is more challenging than what we think and feel before the exact moment. It’s very true, as every coin has head and tail like it’s the two sides of every thing. Its absolutely have a lots of challenges in motherhood; tireless day, sleepless night, stuck the limbs within a house, running the household chores and taking care of little ones are not something we imagine before reaching there. We have to cope with a lot of things that comes to us, but the joys what we fee with the little ones move that away and reduces those freaking moments. Those are countless comparing the love and emotional bond that we could have by motherhood. 

Talking about a career along with the responsibility of mother is the toughest moment that ones has to face, but everyone should be optimistic with the day that comes to be true on day in the favor of what we expect and what we want to do.  Yes, I know it's quite difficult to leave my baby with someone else unless and until he becomes ready to eat by himself. My baby is quite fussy to eat and have to spend a lot of time while feeding. He usually doesn't open his mouth when there is no toys around or no baby songs or without making any fun. That's the reason; I couldn't be dependent for anyone else on the issue on feeding and taking care him all the ways throughout the day. I talked with several Mothers and found the same response. Only few women are lucky; their infants eat well and make them good-bye to work without fussing. 

Becoming motherhood is beautiful not only in the sense that you have become a mother. Its a time you can play with a tiny hand, tiny head, tiny feet, little finger and little cutie pie face that make you the different feeling and compassion. In addition, the joy you gained whe your little one starts to talk taataa, baaba, daada, those are very interesting and amazing opportunities that you could ever have in lives. The other side what we expect to encounter is that, we forget to eat, forget to cook, no time to taking care of self and no life for mother to think about her. I mean sometimes you rarely have time to do those stuffs. On the other hand, if you don't have enough family support for your financial situation will make you feel bad and it drags to the doghouse. Someone has to be ready to face financial crisis as well. If you don't have an understanding partner, then it's a time to fight with many stuffs that you can’t imagine without diving yourself That's why you have to be ready to cope with all kind of difficulties and I hope you will definitely be ready because this moment doesn't come all the time.  Preparation makes you in better stage, if accidently invites that moment; you can enjoy but will have to undergo a lot of things along with. Be prepared all the ways to go …. Good Luck and Good Bye 08/11/2015

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Thinking has a power

Thinking has a power

  8:20:00 PM    Indirasite.com

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Thinking has a power

I have been loving this topic since my childhood as I used to read many newspapers and peoples' speech about positive thinking. Why some people are sad and some people are happy all depend on how they think by themselves.  The happiness doesn't belong to property or something that people have, it is created inside by people's perception. That's why I believe that there is a power in the thinking. Sometimes, if I feel miserable, I

don't see any brighter day to come to me. That brings me all the way dark and poor opinion in mind that drives me to be sad and isolated. But, if I feel I am the strongest woman in this word, it generates strength inside me and I start to see all around are lighter and much happier and exciting moments are on the way to come. That's why being positive and thinking positive is a way to be strong and determined by yourself. If you always think only your problem you never be happy in life. Instead of thinking your own problem, just think about the people who are living without the resources what you have now. If you have a job, think about the people who don't have a job. If you think that your salary is low, then think about the people who are surviving with less money than what you have today. These are the way of self-satisfaction if you compare with people due to physical possession or something else.

Many people who are rich but not happy because they don't have a family. Many people who have the family, but still not happy because they don't have enough money to spend for their survival. That's why, if we see someone happier than us that could be only our imagination. None of the people have everything whatever they want and whatever they want to have in their lives. Everyone is chasing behind to find something and to be happy in lives.Some who don't have enough money are running behind to earn more to have the physical possession what they want to have. But, people who ever have money, but don't have family and friends are on the same way to be happy with the people surrounding them. It's the way of living the lives, but becoming frustrated and sad without reason, but only your poor thinking not only make you miserable but might end you on the road.

So, be careful everyone. It is a saying that empty mind is the home of evil, therefore, keep yourself busy. If you have enough time and you don't have friends, try to read new things, create your own idea to do something good not only for yourselves but to the people throughout the world. Life is not only to live and enjoy by yourself, but it is also something else to do for the people and for this world because we are the creator of this nature. That's all for today. See you soon. 08/10/2015

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