Change yourself in the first place

Change yourself in the first place

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“By behaving elegantly, you inspire others to behave elegantly; by behaving rude, you invite others to behave rude! You change others when you change yourself!”
― Mehmet Murat ildan

Change is a crucial part of life and unavoidable by itself.  We have to accept the changes in every aspect, and it is required to make things better than what we have today. We always try to change others and seek better aspects from others but forget to change ourselves. Better things happen in our life only once we start changing ourselves first. We expect the better place, better earth, and need the changes that should come in this world but, which is not possible by itself if we don’t change first our

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attitude, our behavior, and habits of treating this world.  The first place of change needs to come in our own mind and thought. We should allow it in our own garden of mind and should plant the seed of kindness, favors, support, forgiveness, and humanity. If we believe people should respect us, then we should start respecting them in the first place.  It is always beyond my control to change the people but, I could change myself first to change them. It should come from my heart otherwise I couldn’t make anything better. Changing the people’s is the toughest job unless you change by yourself

One of the popular leaders of India, Mahatma Gandhi (Great soul) has said, “Be the change you want to see in the world”. That means whatever the changes we are looking for in this world to see we must start first cultivating in our life. If we want to end the corruption in the world, we must apply in our own endeavors. If you want the people to be kind and generous, you should be an example being kind and generous first to them. If you want to have peace in the world, you should start creating a peaceful life in your own individual life first.

It is difficult to start oneself, but each individual willingness to change creates power and inspires the other to follow them.  We may face criticism while inviting a new change in our society or to change the existing norms and traditional values but it is necessary for the betterment and we should be able to cope with the critique and despair.  According to the Newton law of motion, everything remains in uniform motion unless the external force is applied there. That is why social existence is a kind of motion and people there believe in that same thing that is already existed. Without external force, it remains at the same pace, none of the development comes there and if anything, new happens it is extremely hard to adopt that changes.

If the human being did not adopt the changes, we would have stayed in the cave. But, we are here today as in the advanced society because of the changes that came into our life. Due to the development of technology, our lives have been easier than earlier.  We can communicate with the people around the world sitting inside a room. We can see the world from one corner watching the news. That is why change is always exciting and it is worth making the difference in this world. To make this world better than what we have now, we need to bring the changes in every aspect of our life. As a human being, everyone has a responsibility to take part in taking care of the environment, caring and sharing among the people, sharing the love and happiness, and spreading the respect and gratitude being kind to each other.

We should always remember the roles of great people who contributed to this world. Mahatma Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Nelson Mandela, Abram Lincoln are the example of change-maker in this world and their name will be never erased in history. Even though we are ordinary people, can take a little step-changing our own manner. Giving them love and respect to people, sharing the joys and happiness among us as possible. We are looking to have a better environment, better jobs, better drinking water, and a better way of living our lives which is possible if start a little step of change from our end first. In order to have better law and order in the nation, the existing one should be changed and has to implement the new one.
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तिम्रो प्रेम, मेरो काविल

तिम्रो प्रेम, मेरो काविल

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तिम्रो प्रेम, मेरो काविल

तिम्रो साथ मेरो लागि बाच्ने एउटा आधार बन्यो
तिम्रो प्रेम  मेरो लागि हास्ने एउटा आधार बन्यो

तिम्रो साथले नै जीवन बाच्न संधै उत्साहित गरिरहन्छ  किनकी तिमी नै मेरो  साथ  हौ, जसले मेरो हरेक दुख र सुखमा बिना कुनै स्वार्थ, मलाई  सुनिरहंछौ । जब म एक्लै हुन्छु, तिमी संधै आफ्नो मुस्कुराहट छर्दै मेरो समिप आउछौ अनि मलाई तिम्रो साथको आभास गराउछौ, तिम्रो प्रेमिल मुस्कानले जीवन फेरि रंगिन बन्छ ।  म झस्किन्छु   तिमीलाई घरि घरि भुल्दो रहेछु है अनि तिम्रो अस्तित्वलाई पनि त्यसैले त कहिले कहिँ उदासी बन्छु, म

एक्लो महसुस गर्छु, मलाई माफी गरिदेउ ।  दुनियामा जो जसलाई भुल्न सके पनि तिमी त मेरो जीवनको एक अभिन्न अंग हौ जसलाई नत भुल्न सम्भब छ, न त टाढिन नै, त्यसैले तिमी मेरो सास हौ, तिमी एक भरोसा हौ जीवनमा हास्ने एक येसास हौ  ।  तिम्रो साथ नै मेरो लागि बाच्ने एउटा आधार हो, तिम्रो प्रेम नै मेरोलागि हिड्ने साधन हो।  त्यसैले त प्रिये  तिम्रो साथले मेरो एक्लोपन संधै दुर हुन्छ, म संधै हासिरहंछु  चाहे त्यो कुनै अन्धकारमा रुमलिदाको पल होस्  या त बर्खायामको तुफान र हुरीको समय होस्।

तिमी सधैं जीवनमा अघि बढिरहने हौसला दिन्छौ।  जीवनमा कुनै कुरा गल्ति हुँदैछ  भने मलाई  झस्काउछौ अनि फेरि कुनै राम्रो काम गरिरहेकी छु भने  प्रसंसा दिएर प्रोत्शाहित गर्न तम्सिरहन्छौ ।  साँची नै तिमीबिना त म कति अनभिज्ञ हुन्छु होला हगि ? त्यसैले त संधै मेरो ख्याल राख्छौ  र मलाई मानवता र दयाको बारेमा सिकाइरनछौ । तिमीलाई थाहा छ नि , यस संसारमा जोकोही पनि एक्लै आउँछन् र एक दिन यस पृथ्वीलाई छाडेर  एक्लै जान्छन् । त्यसैले यो संसारमा जति पनि भौतिक साथहरु छन् सबै  अस्थायी हुन्छन् किनकी कसैले कसैलाई जीवनको अन्तिम सम्म साथ दिन्छु भन्दा भन्दै जीवनको अन्त्य भने अलग अलग समयमा  हुन्छ । तर म चाहन्छु  मेरो मृत्यु पछि पनि तिमी मसँगै रहनेछौ, म जुन संसारमा शयर गर्छु तिमी पनि त्यहि दुनियामा हुनेछौ।

मदहोसम म तिमीलाई माया गर्छु  किनकि हामी एकार्कामा परिपुरक हौ । दुनिया यो रंगिन देख्छु किनकी  जीवनका यी हरेक पलहरुसंग  रमाउनु नै जीवनको लक्ष्य हो ।   जीवनमा धेरै साथीहरू छन् तर तिमीमात्र एक यस्तो  अनन्य मित्र, अनन्य प्रेमी हौ जो मेरो जुनसुकै परिस्थितिमा पनि मबाट टाढा जांदैनौ, तिमीलाई जति नै गालि गरे पनि संधै तिम्रो निस्छल मुस्कानको साथ् मलाई माया गरिरहन्छौ अनि मलाई छ्य्मा दिरहन्छौ।   मेरो अन्य साथी र तिमिबिचको भिन्नता  यहि हो  जब म मेरा साथीहरूलाई अन्जानमा चोट  पुर्‍याउँछु  मसँग तिनीहरू दु: खित हुन्छन्, तिनीहरू मसंग रिसाउछन्   अनि दोश्रो दिन देखि मबाट टाढा हुन्छन, कति त बोल्न पनि गाह्रो मान्छन्  । तर तिमी एक मात्र त्यस्तो छौ  जुन मेरो  हरेक फरक धारणाको बाबजुद  सधैं शान्त छौ , मलाई विश्वस्त पार्ने प्रयास गर्छौ अनि  सँधै मलाई शक्ति  र हौसला दिइरहन्छौ । 


म आज तिमीप्रति कति कृतज्ञ छु अनि तिमी मेरो जीवनमा कति महत्वपुर्ण पात्र हौ, यहि भन्नको लागि केहि समय लिंदै छु । आज मलाई थोरै समय  तिम्रो निम्ति समर्पण गर्न मन लाग्यो, तिम्रो साथ, तिम्रो माया, तिम्रो प्रेरणाका लागि अनि  मलाई हरेक पलहरुमा थपेको उर्जाको निम्ति , म तिमीसंग धेरै नै आभारी छु ।   एक मानवको रूपमा, म सँधै समृद्धि र आनन्दको आशा गर्दिन किनकी त्यो समयको लागि धेरै मेहनत गर्नु पर्छ, धेरै त्याग गर्नुपर्छ त्यो मलाई एकदमै राम्रो संग थाहा छ।  जिन्दगीको हर मोडहरु संग लड्दै पड्दै, संघर्स गर्दै अघि बढ्न चाहने अनि हरेक पलहरुलाई मिठो सम्झनामा संगाल्न चाहने एक यात्री हु म।  तर  समय सदैब कहाँ एकै तालमा बहन्छ, कहिले बाटोमै आंधी आउछ, कहिले हुरी आउछ अनि कहिले झरी आउछ।  तिमी एउटा  यस्तो साथी हौ जसले मलाई मेरो हरेक सजिलो अनि अप्ठ्यारा दुवै समयमा  संधै  बलियो र  साहसी  भएर अघि बढ्ने उर्जा थापिरहन्छौ । यो सत्य हो तिम्रो साथ अनि तिम्रो आत्मीयताको कारणले म  अहिले यहाँ छु। म आफ्नो जीवनप्रति  आभारी छु, मलाई मेरो जन्म दिने बाबा र आमालाइ संधै धन्यबाद दिन चाहन्छु, तिमी त बिसेष छौ अनि सम्पूर्ण अन्य साथहरुलाइ पनि हार्दिक नमन गर्दछु।

 फेरिपनि एकपटक धन्यबाद तिमीलाइ , तिमी संधै यसैगरी  मेरो प्राण, विश्वास अनि भरोशा भएर साथ दिएकोमा ।  जीवनमा धेरै मेरा साथीहरू छन् उनीहरु पनि मेरो जीवनको विभिन्न पलहरुमा साथ साथमा छन् तर तिमी मेरो आफ्नो मनभित्र बसेको हुनाले खास छौ।  तिमीसंग बोल्नको लागि न त मैले फोन गर्न पर्छ, न त कुनै म्यासेज नै गर्नु पर्छ खाली तिमी त मेरो मन हौ, म जता जान्छु, जहाँ हुन्छु तिमी जहिले पनि मेरो साथमै हुन्छौ ।  म मेरा सबै साथीहरूको साथ् , प्रेम, स्नेह र  समर्थनका  लागि  कृतज्ञ छु तर, आज मैले यहाँ मेरो सच्छा साथि, मेरो जीवनको अविरल यात्राहरुमा कहिले टाढा नभाग्ने, कुनै स्वार्थ नलिने, मलाइ संधै माया गर्ने, प्रेम दिने मेरो आफ्नै मेरो सहयात्री  हो  मेरो आत्मा उसैको प्रेमिल दुनियामा डुबेर यी भावाना  छताछुल्ल पोखे । सबैलाई नमस्ते!  साथीहरू जीवनमा साथी अनि साथ हरेक समयमा अनि विभिन्न परिस्थितिहरुमा आउछन्, कुनै साथी संगको सम्बन्ध संधै प्रगाड बन्छ यधपी समय र परिस्थितिले टाढा बनाउछ  त कुनै साथीहरु कुनै बिसेष समयका लागि आउछन्  जान्छन्  तर तिम्रो आत्मा, तिम्रो मन जो तिमिभित्रै छ त्यो जति नजिकको साथी यो भौतिक संसारमा पाउन मुश्किल छ।  मेरो सम्पूर्ण मित्रहरुमा नमन।  म भित्रको मेरै प्रेमिल दुनियालाई बुझिदिनु पढिदिनु भएकोमा धेरै धन्यवाद।

By Indira Chongbang
07/22/2020

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The dreamers

The dreamers

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“The secret of making dreams come true can be summarized in four C’s. They are Curiosity, Confidence, Courage, and Constancy; and the greatest of these is Confidence.” ―Walt Disney

Yesterday was tough, today is tougher, but tomorrow is beautiful. The dreamers are the idealists who believe that beautiful things may happen in life. They don’t hesitate to fight with the adversities and

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determine to bring the changes in life with the foresight of possibilities. They keep on dreaming despite having failures, setbacks, and complications. They see the moonbeam and the glory in their ways and keep on working hard every day.

The dreamers never look back neither regret the past rather keep on moving away towards their destination. They always surround the positive people who support them, help them, and favor them towards their dream. In addition, they can live their life with full of happiness and joy. They never compare them with others rather believe the uniqueness of each individual and respect the differences. They are ordinary, imperfect but always try to be perfect and perform the outstanding activities using their ideas, thoughts, and knowledge.

They are the ones who always share the ideas with the people, learn from different opinions, and keep on moving on their goal.  They are loving, caring, compassionate with the full of empathy and exploration. They don't seek only their happiness but always broaden their sights towards the glory of human beings and the world. They want to share the resources that we have given by this earth equally with all the people around us. Moreover, they believe in cooperation and togetherness to be stronger and better tomorrow. The dreamers focus on their purpose more than thinking about what other people think about them.

The story of every successful person begins with a dream. They fail several times but never give up their hope and continue to walk right after where they were left.  The self-belief, inner strength, and attitude of getting done the things made them be there today.  We ordinary people can also make our dreams to be true one day if we keep on following the ways what they do We have to be thankful for the world that we have and the resources that we have. Keep on believing, have faith in yourself, sooner or later one day your dreams come to be true!
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