Thursday, June 2, 2016

Moral and Behavior Education to Men is important to save the Women's life.


Mannisha Gharti Magar of Nepal, who was only 17 years of old left this beautiful world without fulfilling her thousands of dreams. Her boyfriend was suspected in her death, but according to the polygraph test he passed that which means he is not guilty enough. But it doesn’t matter even if he didn’t kill her, he has indirectly involved on her death. She is only an example; numerous women have been loosing their lives because of the prevalent violences around the world.Even though women are the same components of a human being of this world, they have to undertake several challenges of life threatening issues. They have become the victim of social discrimination and loosing their lives due to the brutality of the same other constituent . Every year, millions of women become victim of rape, sexual violations, domestic violations and many of them lose their life because of those factors.
Source: Google

A mounted questions arise in my mind regarding theses issues. Although both are important coequal of a human being and integral part of each other, why the disparity has existed between them or why women are deliberating as made for men. They are dominated in the society because of the patriarchal social system under which men are reflected as a head of the family and women are only supporters.

But this is an age of the 21st century as we have grown up with the development of technologies and information. The general understandings depict gender equality of this age. For example; a family is complete and concise if both male and female possess equal education and earning. They are complementary to each other; if one wheel of chariot doesn’t work, then it will affect the whole functions of it. Same is the case of women's and men, but this understanding is not applied in our daily lives. Since the early age of a human being; men have self-esteem that they are more stronger and more powerful than women. Their mind has set by dominant nature over women.

Women constitute 50% or more population of the world, but the report shows that 70% of them are living under a $1 per day. Large numbers of women's are unemployment and millions of them have been abused, harassed and violated their basic fundamental rights by their male counterparts. According to the report of Amnesty International; around the world at least one women in every three has been beaten, coerced into sex or otherwise abused in her lifetime. The world is amazing in the sense; many movements for equality are going on for a long time; it has not yet become the safest place for them to live. They are not able to deserve their basic human rights as they have been treating a piece of entertainment and gratification of men and used as a container to make a child. Many of the violations are not reported to the public because it increases their vulnerability and make their life much harder.

Only countable women have won the world and have become powerful. They have reached in the decision making position and some of them have become independent standing on their own legs. This is the greatest achievement of women movement who started to fight against discrimination on sex. But still, several educated and independent women have to go with double responsibilities because of the men. If a man works in a family, his thinking and perception is different than what a woman has. He pretends that he is the king and principal part of the household as he earns for his family. He thinks he should’t involve in household chores because it is for female doesn’t matter either she works or not. It is a man’s presumption he is always superior than women all the ways work to home.
If a woman work with junior males who are younger and less experienced, but they pretend they knew much more stuffs than she; no matter what comes the result. The edge of the reason is men because they don’t want to get along with women equally. Working with men means unnerving to women. Their perception never changes even they are equally educated and their strength is the same regarding all aspects of lives.
According to the Quora; women and children are the most potential resources of production and they are producing half of the world food but they own only 1% of the land. They are suppressed by men because of the patriarchal world for a long time.

Only the education of women rights to women is not sufficient. They understand their rights, but if their partners don't favor them; that understanding doesn’t work out alone. Men should be the first focus of behavioral and morall education
The most challenging part of women is bearing a child. Men can not even imagine the pain that women face during the pregnancy and delivery. After then, it takes time to recover and get back to work. That is the toughest time becoming a dependent and mother of little children. Only the few luckiest women get the supportive partner who care them as per their need, but according to the experience of many women' men are not as supportive as their wives need. They need emotional support, moral support, physical support, love and care from their partner. If the two are bonded for throughout the lives what is the value of favoring them only when they are strong ?. This is a very sensitive stage for women; if they don’t get enough care, they will go postpartum depression. Men should understand this ardent condition of women and should treat them as per their need. Against helping and supporting them, it has found from the research that men beat them and sometimes kill them.
The persistent violations against women is because of the men. Only the education of women rights to women is not sufficient. They understand their rights, but if their partners don't favor them; that understanding doesn’t work out alone. Men should be the first focus of behavioral and morall education, only after they will understand all the parts of equality and why it is important to treat women as a human being and why to respect them equally. Feminist and the responsible parts of the society should educate and train the men to avoid repeating hazards of social incumbent and to make this world better and a nicer place to live to all the human being equally.
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