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Be Your True Self
“Life is the most difficult exam.
Many people fail because they try to copy others, not realizing that everyone
has a different question paper.”
Every individual is unique in this world, even though all human beings have the same red blood and is covered by the same kind of flesh. What sets us apart are our personalities, talents, perspectives, identity, origin, values, and experiences.
Trying to copy others often leads to
frustration because what works for some peoples may not align with others’
abilities, wisdom, personalities, or personal journey. This is why it is essential
to embrace your true self instead of constantly comparing yourself to others
and following a path already taken by someone else.
Life is not a race to be won; it
unfolds at its own pace, regardless of the challenges it presents. If you treat
life as a race and keep running just to outpace others, you will forget to
enjoy your journey, forget to see beautiful scene ahead. In addition, you will
lose sight of the present, focusing only on the destination.
Sometimes, life throws unexpected
obstacles on its way; other times, it lifts us to great heights. Regardless, it
moves to its own rhythm. Many people feel discouraged when they focus solely on
their struggles while comparing themselves to others' achievements. They begin
to believe they are failures among a sea of successful people. Despite their
hard work and dedication, they feel unrewarded, while their friends, relatives,
or neighbors seem to thrive.
When we get lost in the wrong judgment,
we lose sight of our own purpose, journey, values, and the importance of
perseverance. Instead of developing strategies to improve ourselves, we imitate
others, adopting a false image to fit in. However, this mindset only holds us
back and it drags us down rather than helping us to grow.
True wealth is not measured by money
or fame but by the relationships we build and the kindness we share with the
people around us. Some may appear rich on the outside, yet feel empty inside
because material possessions alone do not bring fulfillment and success. People
have money and they are rich outside, it doesn’t mean they are happy and they
are kind.
On the other hand, those who may not
have great financial wealth or luxurious lives but possess love, compassion,
and integrity are truly rich. Life is like a rotation and it has its ups and
downs. If you are struggling today, do not lose hope; your future may be
brighter than you ever imagined. Even if your present circumstances do not yet
reflect it, remain persistent, resilient, and never give up, the brightest day
is yet to shine and, on its way, sooner or later.
Associating yourself to others will
only bring grief. Instead, embrace your journey, appreciate every moment, and
believe in yourself. Life is not about outshining others with wealth or status
but about understanding who you truly are, what you want, and what makes you
unique.
( Note: The following
represents my personal practice and reflection. It's important to acknowledge
that people may have diverse thoughts and perceptions, and this is simply my
perspective.)
Created on 04/3/2025
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