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Saturday, September 30, 2017

How to define yourself?

  7:17:00 PM    


Defining oneself is the difficult part of our life, but we might think our outer appearances will define who we are, or our dress up and makeup will tell them how we look like. We want to prettify our face shining and want to wear the beautiful dresses in order to have the best pictures. We also want to eat
less in order to have the better body size to be seen prettier in other’s eyes. That's is how we visualize and define ourselves. In general, understanding we want to be good and perfect in other eyes, we need appreciation and expect always their positive feedback, but life doesn’t come to be true what we have been thinking.

Everyone wants to be beautiful in this world, but in contrary to this expectation Lizzie Velasquez became the ugliest woman in peoples' eyes. She was born only two pounds and doctors told her parents, their first child wouldn’t be able to crawl, walk and even talk throughout her life. Instead of surprising, her parents answered, they would see, take care of her with the best possible ways they could and that's how she was taken care with the love and best effort to make her normal as other people. When she was very young, she never realized she was different than other kids. When other kids scared and turned her down, she disappointed and returned home from school and asked her parents what wrong she did?. They said;’ You did nothing wrong, you are perfect, beautiful and same as other kids only the difference is you are smaller than other kids” She credits her parents for all of their efforts who turned her life today to be a motivational speaker, writer and accomplished her goals what she really wanted to be in her life.

  

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Wednesday, September 27, 2017

The new experiment

  8:41:00 PM    

Once upon a time, the king of one kingdom decided to perform a new experiment with a man. Possibly he was the first king who loved to have a new experiment with a different thing. He called one man and said; " How much property are you willing to have in your life?" That man bowed down his head and said; " I want to have enough money to live me and my family with the greatest joy
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and pleasure for this age". The king said to that man; " You will own the land as much as you can walk tomorrow throughout the day, but you have to have one promise in mind that you should arrive at the same place from where you begin your journey before the sunset". He agreed that proposal and went back to his home.

  

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Tuesday, September 26, 2017

The demand of 'Gorkhaland' thriving around the globe.

  7:06:00 PM    



Darjeeling Gorkha welfare society East Cost NY organized a BBQ program in New York in order to support the Gorkhland movement and for the solidarity from the foreign land to pass the message we are united for the Gorkhaland regardless of the physical distance and united together throughout the world.
Gorkhaland March in front of United Nations New York

The gathering was a symbol of the single voice they want to live and thrive in their nation with equality and respect which is possible only if their demand of Gorkhaland will be granted. They tried to disseminate their emotions towards the people and spread their sentiments through play cards and a banner stating they stand along with the people of Darjeeling and against the violations of human rights which are disrupting due to the police brutality and inhumanity.

It was motioned to be united among the Gorkha diaspora who live in the United States and scattered around the globe, but they are together for the common cause of Gorkhaland wherever they are. According to the sources, about 1200 people have sacrificed their lives for this same mission and they have been fighting for 110 years in the history demanding the independent state of their motherland India. Though they are considered as the migrated Nepalese, their ancestors already have spent the numerous years even many of them don't know which part of Nepal they belong from.

  

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Monday, September 25, 2017

Benefits of laughing

  8:30:00 PM    


Laughing is not only a way to express a happiness but it has also a lot of scientifically proven benefits associated with it. One of the major reasons; why comedy movies and drama are watched more than other types is because of the laughing. Laughing is the splendid method of pleasure which fuel the
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new strength of excitement and enthusiasm.  I have tried to present some of the major benefits of laughing, which are helpful to all of us if we laugh.

 1. Support to stay healthy 

Laughing is a crucial means of staying happy and healthy nowadays. Science has proved that when we laugh it improves the blood flow and helps to reduce the high blood pressure. Due to that blood circulation, it also reduces the risk of heart attack and maintains the healthy body and healthy brain.

 2. It helps to relieve the pain and stress

Due to the everyday busy schedule, people get tired, stressed and turned out the visualization.

  

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Saturday, September 23, 2017

How to deal with the stubborn people?

  8:11:00 PM    


It is one of the challenging and essential lessons that we need to understand how to deal with the stubborn people who might encounter with us along the journey. They could be our colleagues,
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spouse or friends, that we have to admit with along our way. It is one of the toughest as well interesting parts of our life. Even though we can take, this is an opportunity to learn the human behavior, it is not easy and lots of work that we need to do. I have discovered some points while going through some researchers and have tried to portray some of the points which we need to keep in mind.

1. Staying calm

A stubborn person always wants to be in the higher position and might think that they know the best. They always want the validation and approval of what they say and what they think. They might take the different opinions as the personal attacks and don't want to be the loser. While arguing with the stubborn person, most of the time we have to stay calm and let them finish first what they are trying to tell us only after then we can flattery, give them some ideas praising and persuading them we are carefully listening and paying attention. We have to make them feel that we value and respect their opinions even, in fact, it comes to be not, then should start what we truly trying to say.

 2. Careful arguments 

We have to think in mind, stubborn people don't want to be wrong and always wants to win while arguing on some situations. We have to be very careful with those arguments with them otherwise it may turn to the battles and fights and could be harmful to us and other people physically and mentally. It is always wise not to argue with them, but situations might drag with the hall where we have to. Carefully listen to them first, politely explain letting them know the more information than what they have. We don't get what we want from the stubborn people, but we can have the half from the careful negotiations and by applying the best approach to deal with them.

  

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Friday, September 22, 2017

This world is beautiful if you widen your eyes

  8:35:00 PM    


The beauty lies in our eyes, not in the objects.  This world is beautiful if we widen our eyes, but worst if we squeeze within our hands. Do you realize the beauty you will find when watching the blue sea
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and the ocean, the decorated garden or the natural and artificial scenery which is mind-blowing? Of course, on a certain extent, we may be pleased with the beauty what comes to our eyes and enjoy, more than that if we are unable to widen our eyes we can see only the beautiful things in the world.

  

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Tuesday, September 19, 2017

"Time is a tight wait for none"

  8:33:00 PM    


You were a beautiful princess more than what I liked someone, more than what I had imagined and it was the greatest pleasure to see you with a silky hair, little loose clothes. You seemed to shine in the
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moon, but never dared to tell you what I had in my mind rather I always tried to run away far from you, but didn't leave to watch hiding you staying far away in the horizon. I liked you so much, but I didn't have the courage to tell you because I had several reasons why I was that way.

After about a decade, I am not sure whether it was my fortunate or not  I am connected with you and went back to the past. Every trial and every memory reveal constantly teasing myself for the fear and disappear, but now I am strong and confident I can share you what I thought what was in my mind, but it is already too late. You were pretty more than the angel for me, you were more adorable than the princess of my palace of the castle, but the destiny hadn't made you for me and I kept on hiding and hiding forever.

Not everything is said in life, not everything is seen here in this world, even the true love can't be seen, but only felt in the heart. My love was more than what the words can explain, the true beauty lies in the eyes, not with the objects. You run away from my life without giving me the opportunities to embrace you, without letting you know the truths. When you asked me why you are still single it was quite difficult to answer, but easy and true because my love disappeared and I was searching to find the same but couldn't get the one that was in my mind.

  

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Monday, September 18, 2017

Major ingredients to have a relationship work out.

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Every day the news hit our ears with the divorce and separation, many children's lives are connected and they are badly affected due to the breaking out of the relationship between the two counterparts. The relationship is one of the difficult parts of life to nurture, foster and keep it alive. Both parties are
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responsible for maintaining and keeping the relationship alive, even if one party keeps on trying hard, but another has a negligence then the outcomes eventually will be the same as above. If we want our family keeps on moving and happy lives, we have to know certain ingredients that focus on keeping and working out in the relationship.

1. Commitment;

Commitment is one of the essential parts of the relationship. We begin a relationship with someone, but don’t have a commitment to us then we can slip away in the middle of the journey. We both have to have the commitment to our relationship and should understand both we are responsible for keeping it alive. If only the one is committed to this relationship, but other parties neglect and don't care whether to keep or break then the relationship doesn’t last long. Both parties should make a commitment otherwise nothing could happen except breaking out.

  

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Sunday, September 17, 2017

Women choices

  6:43:00 PM    


Every woman wants her beautiful family with a supportive husband and the lovable kids in their laps. But not all the women are as lucky as what they think and desire, as many have to go to with the different kinds of circumstances. Every woman has a choice what to take it along with the journey or
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anything else there to leave. My presentation of women's choices is based on my own experiences and what I have observed during this life period of time.

As all the other women I always want for my child to keep him happy and to fulfill the desire of my family without any excuse. But for some time being and due to my own busy schedule, I am always lacking behind what truly I want to do and how I spend my time with them. Only a mother is selfless in this world who loves their kids without any return, without any hope and without any expectation for the future. Only the mother love is pure in this world and none of the other existing can replace the mother's lap and unconditional compassion.

I had a dream that my child would be my friends of my loneliness and help to me to go away the feeling of being alone in this world. After having my child Mulklum Hang, I  received the greatest happiness of life and most importantly, he became my friends of every moment what I used to go through. I might have scolded several times due to the circumstances but it didn’t mean I wanted to harm him. I had a dream to keep him always happy and satisfied, but as I am a mother, I have to know the way how to keep the discipline and the way of what he suppose to learn from his first teacher.

  

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Saturday, September 16, 2017

How the multiple hands are grounded by their better half?

  6:14:00 PM    

Women are considered with multiple hands as they have to play the numerous roles in the family at once. But due to the wrong social belief, their roles are dominated and not boldly appreciated rather
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their better half treat them with the misconceptions that those are the presumptive roles that women need to play. I don't understand why the human being lacks behind in the equality and social justice for approaching them under the same category.

  

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Friday, September 15, 2017

The in charge of happiness

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Happiness is a state of mind where we are free from the suffering, worries, and feeling in insecurity. We are in the state of intended and inspired about the life, motivated, enthusiastic and weaving the
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necklace of a beautiful dream every day. In other words, happiness is something which gives the real meaning, value and unconditional love, compassion to al the living being and spread the empathy. We have the feeling of the world is beautiful, I am enjoying my life and this life is so precious we have to deserve the happiness of his life to his fullest level. The ultimate happiness is possible if we identify what is the in charge of happiness? Is that your better half? Your mentors? Or the people whom you are surrounded?

  

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Tuesday, September 12, 2017

FIWNA extended and shared its gratitude with a belief that together we can make a difference.

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FIWNA (Federation of indigenous women of Nepal in America) extended the love, respect, gratitude, and compassion among its members in a gathering. It is a FIWNA culture to assist to each other and treat everyone as family members. They shared the honors among themselves to value its existence

and to bring a feeling of we together in FIWNA as a home.

It was also a moment of celebration of victory as one of its members  Indira Gharti was recently elected as a board member of NRN NCC New York chapter. The team congratulated and honored her wishing her successful tenure and persuaded to play an exemplary role among the Nepalese community. They analyzed the challenges and opportunities for a woman taking an additional role in the community.
Indira Gharti and Indira Chongbang

  

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Saturday, September 9, 2017

A Peace of mind is more valuable than million of dollar

  8:57:00 PM    


A peace of mind could be more precious and more valuable than millions of dollars. If we have enough money and physical stuffs with us, but don’t have peace of mind, then we can’t have the
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happiness in life. Inner peace is the source of happiness and pleasure which extends the love and compassion towards all the living being of this world who deserve to live this life not only oneself, but together with all sharing the love, respect, compassion motivating and inspiring to each other understanding the humanitarian deed in this world.

  

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Friday, September 8, 2017

Source of Happiness

  8:52:00 PM    



The source of happiness is within us
We can imagine the fantastic day
We can draw a beautiful image in mind
We can scale the level of joys what we have
We laugh to dictate and reflect our pleasure
All of those are created within us

Every human being is looking for happiness
But only a few figures out truly what it is
Some compare it with money
Some compare with the physical possessions
Many people have misconceptions that
The success is the biggest happiness
Rather happiness begins from our mind
It crawls and grows along with our understanding
And understand what is life and source of happiness

The source of happiness is our mind
If it is peace and clean we can be happy every day
If it fills with a bad stuff, we suffer every day
We don't have a big dream to be fulfilled
Neither it comes with a huge property gain
It comes from our mind and thought
Inner peace is the best source of happiness
Enjoy and beauty of this world with identifying the source of happiness



  

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Thursday, September 7, 2017

Is it okay to let it sail?; The motion of life.

  8:22:00 PM    


It is hard to be impermeable even we try very hard. Our life is full of fluctuations with many ups and down, pain- pressure, happiness-pleasures which keep around the circumferences of life turning into one point to the other. Sometimes, even we are surrounded by many people, friends, family members
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and colleagues we sail and find alone. Sometimes; even without any companion of single people, we deserve ourselves the loved ones surrounded and feel nothing is lacking in our lives.  That is why the events of life are in motions which keep on changing from one phase to another, like head and tail of the coin and the day and night.

  

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Saturday, September 2, 2017

How to make every day is a good day?

  6:19:00 PM    


We want to make our today a good day, tomorrow is also a good day and perhaps we never want the worst day to come into our lives. If we don't want the bad days in our lives, what are the factors that
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matter the most to keep our every day as a good day? According to the Buddhist philosophers, there is something invisible phenomenon that helps to make our every day a good day.

  

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